The battle then becomes between justification/rationalization versus truth/acceptance. It's not until we get to truth and acceptance that we are truly able to grow from the experience. It still doesn't mean that we have to like it, but it's owning the reality. Those are the moments that are a catalyst for exponential growth.
Hunger for growth. There will be times when you feel extremely vulnerable and tender, but if you keep your focus on the hunger, then you will reap the benefits of the journey.