President George Bush

Former President George W. Bush has been making the rounds this week as he promotes his new book, Decision Points.  I've been captivated as I have examined his responses to the tough questions about his presidency.  As I've listened and pondered his choices, I cannot escape a key truth:  The man is honorable, and his character has nothing to do with any particular political affiliation.  As a leader, it is imperative that you make decisions seeped in integrity.  There is one particular choice that he has made since leaving office that stands out to me as extremely honorable.  He has chosen not to 'diss' other people by becoming a political pundit and critiquing their choices.  I think my admiration would diminish if I heard him make a slanderous remark toward any political figure, even if he was right.  The lone fact that he refuses to conduct any conversation about Obama's choices makes me admire him more.  

He who pursues righteousness and love finds life, prosperity and honor.
                                                                                    Proverbs 21:21 NIV

A Woman's Way

1 John 4: 11-12

Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and His love is made complete in us.

So many times, I find that I get bogged down in the day to day busyness of life.  I neglect capturing that special moment to giggle with my kids.  I overlook seizing a stolen moment with my husband to remind him how much I love him.  I tend to focus on my never-ending task list instead of my relationships.  Today, I choose to remember the importance of those relationships.  I recognize that I have the ability to breathe love and laughter into my family.  May I never overlook the joy and blessing that God has given me in the form of my family.

Decide On Representation

First of all, then, I urge that entreaties and prayers, petitions and thanksgivings, be made on behalf of all men for kings and all who are in authority, so that we may lead a tranquil and quiet life in all godliness and dignity. This is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Savior who desires all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.
1 Timothy 2: 1-4


There are certain times in my life when I am aware that I am making a difference in this world. One of those times is when I vote. Marking a ballot grants me access and leverage to leaders who make decisions about my future. It's an opportunity for me to voice an opinion on those decisions they make. Take the time this week to vote.

A Reflection

The power of reflection has been a recent topic in one of my classes this semester. Reflective inquiry is defined as a process of developing new knowledge, which is contingent upon a procedure that assumes knowledge is ever changing and evolving. This idea has made its way into my spiritual life this week. I have recently been faithfully praying about an area in my life. I have committed myself to prayer and I trust in God's direction completely. I have questions and really need His discernment. I think anytime you travel a new road, it can be fraught with a little bit of fear or intimidation. As I was reflecting over the last few days, I was able to see God at work in several situations that brought so much clarity for me. At the time, I knew the things that were happening were God moments, but it wasn't until I was reflecting on them that I realized the value of those experiences. In one major swoop, God had spoke to me, alleviated some concerns, and gave me a sense of His powerful peace. He is working in my life.

I am so thankful that my relationship is constant but also evolving at the same time. As I reflect on Him, I am overwhelmed at His love.

2 Samuel 22:33
"It is God who arms me with strength and makes my way perfect."

Settling In

John 15: 1-4
"I am the vine, and my Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit, He prunes it so that it may bear more fruit. You are already clean because of the word which I have spoken to you. Abide in Me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself unless it abides in the vine, so neither can you unless you abide in Me."

I have heard this scripture so many times. However, today I experienced it in a new way. I couldn't stop thinking about the word 'abide'. How does one 'abide' in Jesus? We can strive all day long to try to achieve the things that we think Jesus would want us to do, but unless we are 'abiding' in Him, we often come up short. Andy Stanley once made this statement: "The character of Christ is not manufactured by us. It's being produced through us." It's through 'abiding' in Jesus that we are vehicles of His grace and power. We can't make it up and we can't create it ourselves.

I love words. The thesaurus is often my first stop as I delve deeper into a concept. I was interested in dissecting this idea of 'abide'. So here it is: accept, acknowledge, concede, consent, defer, endure, hang in there, hang tough with, live with, receive, sit tight, stand, swallow, take, bunk out, dwell, inhabit, lodge, nest, reside, settle, stay, continue, persevere, persist, survive, anticipate, expect, linger, rest, sojourn, stick around, stop, wait.

Wow. By abiding in Jesus I can see how the character of Christ can be produced through me. My favorite? Settle. Lord Jesus, my greatest desire is to settle in with You. What's your favorite?

A Beautiful Creation

I recently attended an event where girls pre-teen to grandmothers gathered for the purpose of encouraging us all to be safe, healthy, empowered women of God. I have to admit that I got distracted while sitting in my seat. I found myself looking at the over 600 women in the room. I could only marvel at their beauty. Everywhere I looked there was a girl/woman who had a unique look that set her apart from everyone else. The creativity of God's hand is marvelous. I love that He makes us all look different, laugh different, walk different, talk different, and all so beautiful. I often stare with wonder at the beauty of God's creation: the trees, the clouds, a field of flowers. This was my view on the way to school today. I was telling God how beautiful I thought His creation was. Then He brought my attention back to the girls' gathering. I wonder what God thinks when He sees His girls all together in one place like that. I bet that He thinks we are His beautiful creation.

The Top of My List

The law of his God is in his heart; none of his steps shall slide. Psalm 37:31

I love reading. I love getting new insights and information from a variety of books. There is usually a stack of unread books on my bedside table that are "next on my list" to read. Too many times though, I fall victim to good marketing. I want to leverage my influence and be a better leader. I want to discover how I can engage and shape my kids' character. And yes, I want to lose those dreaded 10 lbs and have the body of a 20 year old. The issue is that I am looking for direction from a variety of sources but I am not looking for direction from the Source.

The Bible is the one place where I can go and know that it's 100% accurate. It's not misleading and it gives perfect direction. It tells me to walk humbly, justly, and lovingly when dealing with others. It tells me that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and in this I will prosper in His Kingdom. Reading the Bible: it's at the top of my list.

Peaceful Easy Feeling

"Many are the plans in a man's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails." Proverbs 19:21

As I am pondering the direction and choices of my life, I am hit in the face with God's sovereignty. He is ruler of my life. He knows the beginning and the end. His plan and love for me are written in the stars. They are great and mighty. So the question I have to face is how do I interpret the Wind? How should I make the necessary decisions? I don't really know a lot of specific details about my particular path, but this I do know...as the Eagles used to say, "I've got a peaceful, easy feeling."

What are you looking at?

One of the great things about returning to college at this stage in my life is that I can truely appreciate the people that God has placed around me. On my college campus, I have come in contact with such a varied group of individuals that it has struck me that I must have been blind not to have known they have been there all along. I don't have anything in common with a lot of these people. They have different ideas and beliefs of how the world should work. I love that. I love the fact that God is exploding my comfort zone and sending me out into His world. I want to be a shining light that impacts His kingdom. I want to bring honor and glory to Him. I want to throw off people's preconcieved notions of who they think I am and I want God to throw off my own preconcieved notions of who I think they are. In the end, I think everyone just wants to treated with honor and respect. I wish we in the church could remember that's how we need to treat people.

He Is In The Little Things

No one should ever say that God isn't in the little things. I really enjoy doing yoga. It's a great exercise for me: low impact but excellent benefits. I can do things in yoga that blow my mind. Recently the yoga center that I go to closed. They had a lot of classes during the day which suited my schedule. Normally, it really wouldn't bother me, I would just go to another center. However, all of the other yoga centers have their more challenging classes at night. Since I am in night classes at ETSU, my time at night is already claimed. I refuse to go to yoga classes at those studios because on my free nights I want to focus on being a mom and wife. So my friends at ETSU recently started talking about the school's fitness facility. THEY HAVE YOGA DURING THE DAY AND IT'S FREE!! I know it probably doesn't mean much to you, but to me, it's so awesome. It shows me that God really loves me. He has directed me to a place where I can do a challenging yoga class and remain healthy. He has guided me to a place where I can do yoga free (being a college student means I need to stretch the dollar). He has shown me that the things that matter to me, matter to Him. He is pretty incredible. Just another reason why I love Him so much.